By the time I finally slept—curled on top of the bedspread in the room Dorothy used when she was too tired to walk back to the house at the edge of the property—the office looked less like a crisis center and more like a command post.

Mark arrived on the third day.

He drove up from Denver in his dented Subaru with two duffel bags, a laptop, and a cardboard drink carrier full of coffees that had gone half cold by the time he walked through the door. Mark had been my friend since freshman year of college, when he found me crying in the stairwell outside the financial aid office because my father had canceled the card that paid for textbooks and I was trying to figure out which classes I could fake my way through without buying the books at all. He had sat down two steps below me, handed me a granola bar, and said, “You’re either going to tell me what happened or I’m going to guess, and I promise my guesses are wildly offensive.”

His guesses were, in fact, wildly offensive, which made me laugh hard enough to breathe.

He had been in my life ever since.

Not as a savior. I would have hated that. Mark was too decent to play rescuer anyway. He just stayed. He helped me move dorms when I lost housing between semesters. Paid my phone bill once and then made me repay him in coffee because he knew outright charity would make me refuse. Read scholarship essays. Took me to the grocery store when he suspected I was living on crackers again. Told me, years later, when I apologized for “still being weird about family,” that weird is what happens when people train you to expect punishment for existing.

He stood now in Dorothy’s office, taking in the corkboard, the color-coded legal pads, the old family photos, the guest calendars spread open across the desk.

“So this,” he said, setting the coffees down, “is the war room.”

“It’s not a war room.”

He looked around.

“There are index cards.”

“That doesn’t make it a war room.”

“There are strategic categories on a corkboard.”

“That’s just organization.”

He pointed to the quote card in Dorothy’s handwriting. “‘People don’t come here for perfection. They come here to remember they’re still alive.’ Soph, that’s not organization. That’s doctrine.”

I laughed for the first time since leaving Mr. Thompson’s office.

Mark’s face softened. “Good,” he said. “You still know how to do that.”